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Sex Does Experience Make You Good? By Laura Rupert | 11-12-2007 http://www.drdating.com

Many individuals do not feel comfortable talking about sex. In fact, many couples don't feel comfortable talking about sex. The question is why? There are really many reasons why and most of them have to do with society and families perpetrating the idea that sex is a taboo subject that should be avoided and that only "dirty" people talk about sex. This is not the case at all and sex is natural and beautiful and should be talked about especially in relationships.

You have probably heard jokes about women faking it and people get a good laugh. However, this is a sad situation as women need to be sexually satisfied just like men need to be. There is no reason to fake an orgasm simply because you are too insecure to bring the topic up to your spouse. So, all women and men out there need to sit down and have an open conversation about their sex lives, what works for them, what doesn't, while leaving personal feelings on the table. You must learn how to please your spouse sexually and the only way to really do this is to find out exactly what they want. If you can do this without talking that is great, but a conversation about sex and how to improve your sex life will ultimately benefit both parties. Don't think you can talk about sex? Then physically show your partner what you want! This can be a stimulating and erotic way to get what you need without making yourself feel uncomfortable.

Frequently, men and women alike believe they are experienced lovers and know how to please their spouse. This is not necessarily the case because all men and women have different things they like sexually and things they do not. What is important is for you to learn the things that turn your spouse on and then focus on those. You might be experienced, but that does not mean you are a good lover. A good lover is an individual that listens to their mate, asks for direction, and takes body cues for what feels good and what does not.

When you give sex the importance it deserves in your relationship, focusing on the sexual needs of each individual, then you will see your relationship growing stronger than you ever imagined. That is because sex is very personal and when you can open up to one another on that level then your relationship will become better and you will be closer to your spouse than you ever imagined.