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Looking for a date online? then follow this advic By Francis Githinji | 11-04-2008 http://www.free-articles-zone.com

When it comes to online dating, just like conventional dating it still results with its consequences that people have thought are pitfalls of online dating. Ever since online dating started these consequences were overly increasing but its now declining as people get more experience with online dating. It is a big misfortune that online dating has caused death and hurt to a few people who have faced online dating whether face-to-face or just online.

A telecast some times back give a real experience of a young high school girl who dared for online dating and met up this nice, humble, mature, Christian 40 or so year old man who pushed on so well with this girl until they came into conclusion that they need to meet face-to-face. Without going into further details they eventually met and the girl could not believe what she experienced ever in her life. The guy was irritated about something and was out there to get revenge on young girls. Fortunately the young girl had told her best friend who informed her dad who called the police and calmed the man down and of course had to be confined. Probably he was a mentally disturbed man who needed help but he used online dating the wrong way.

Such consequences are common because of people who are not serious and are not using online dating the right way. If someone is just out there to flirt people then unless he/she gets a match online then he/she is merely disturbing those who are serious. Some people are out there for serious relationships even leading to marriage. Others are out there for sexual partners and pen pals etc. Whatever the reason is at least you have to get a match among millions of online daters who are out there for the same reason as yours. Respect is lacking for online daters who are serious about this growing community.

Something worth looking into is the fact that most people who go for online dating and those who decide meet fact-to-face actually have sex the first day they meet. This is quite discouraging because its not reasonable to have sex with someone you hardly know. Men are more likely to do this than women. The excitement, fear and actually acceptance of an impossible chunk come true is something that make people decide too fast. Those who take time to know each other actually get through online dating unhurt and are the same people who come out to the open and declare it safe to their families and friends. Still some marry and live happily ever after.

The funny thing is, the few who declare that they are frightened to meet someone face-to-face still do not change their opinion about online dating. This means that it is a possible dating society then people need to start embracing this phenomenon as it could be the future for all dating potential people and actually a solution for social activities for busy people. May be one thing everyone needs to accept is the fact that we need to take control of online dating and not let anyone manipulate them online. Setting the best norms for online dating starts with you, approach it maturely and you will get what you are looking for.